Post by sidney33 on Oct 9, 2008 21:57:10 GMT
I will write this from the point of view of Brest cancer however this applies to all types. So some lumps have been found most lumps are not cancer you need to have a biopsy to confirm one way or the other try to stay calm I know its hard .from the start you should get yourself a note book write down the doctors names and what was said and the date .write down all the questions you want to ask important you do this as when you talk to the doctor you will not remember the questions. Take someone with you into the doctors so you can confirm what was said with this person .and get it right .if it is confirmed you have cancer it will be a shock a big shock it might take some weeks to come to grips with this you will feel sadness be careful this is the beginning of depression you don’t need this keep in mind there is good and bad thinking try to keep it positive also hard to do. Not a good idea to get on the computer and start researching this will make you worse there is a time the computer is important not at this point .your G.P. will arrange for you to see specialists you likely will end up with three sometimes four doctors you need this team also keep the note book going .keep in mind more people survive this than don’t. You will have scans blood tests a whole range of tests this can take weeks its round this time you will know what you have and the treatment .at this time you have to think of yourself .if you are told a drug have the doctor spell it for you write it in your note book now you can research the drug on your computer look at the side effects however not all people suffer side effects .if you see nausea ask the doctor for anti nausea pills be prepared now its hard I know if you are to have chemo you will lose your hair don’t wait for it to come out in clumps get in first cut it short get a wig be prepared do what works for you it will grow back and most likely a different colour or curly something to look forward to .round this point you might get an offer to speak to a social worker or a consultant do not say no you need this person talk about it also get his or her phone number put it in you note book if you need info they will find it for you if the unit you are attending runs a meditation class you should attend it’s a fact people who do this live longer a support group is also good you can learn things and know you are not alone if you are on this journey or just starting I wish you well . Sidney.
